May God protect the children and bring justice to cheats.
This feud is ending.
Forced separation.
No more contracts.
No further collaboration.
No More Collaberation
Published December 24, 2025 by tindertenderWHEN GOD IS PORTRAYED AS AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND 💔
Published December 24, 2025 by tindertenderThere is a reason Scripture uses marriage language when speaking of God and humanity.
Because marriage reveals love most clearly —
and abuse most obviously.
Scripture says:
“No one ever hated his own body,
but nourishes and cherishes it.” 💍
That statement alone exposes a massive distortion.
Because if God truly hates, tortures,
or eternally punishes His creation,
then God would be doing
what no healthy husband ever does.
So let me tell this as a parable.
📖 THE PARABLE 📖
There was a man who married a woman
and told her he loved her.
At first, everything seemed fine.
But soon, he began to find fault.
She didn’t wash the dishes correctly.
She didn’t cook the food the way he liked.
She didn’t fold the clothes the way he expected.
He told her,
“If you really loved me, you’d do better.”
Over time, his love became conditional.
“You’re still my wife,” he said,
“but you disappoint me constantly.”
Eventually, he told her:
“Because you didn’t live up to my standards,
I will now torture you forever —
and this will prove how much I loved you.”
When people recoiled in horror,
he replied:
“You just don’t understand love.
I warned her.
She chose this.”
No one would call that love.
No one would call that justice.
They would call it abuse.
Yet this is precisely how God
is portrayed in much of church culture.
🧠 THE PSYCHOLOGICAL FRACTURE 🧠
When people are taught that:
- love includes torture
- justice requires endless punishment
- forgiveness still demands payment
the psyche splits.
The mind is forced to hold two opposing ideas:
“God is love”
and
“God will torture you forever.”
That contradiction cannot be integrated.
So the soul fractures.
Some become fearful.
Some become cruel.
Some become numb.
Many begin defending abuse as righteousness.
This is what happens
when the carnal mind governs theology.
The carnal mind only understands
control, reward, and punishment.
It cannot comprehend restorative love.
🔥 WHAT JESUS ACTUALLY REVEALED 🔥
Jesus did not reveal a God
who punishes His bride.
He revealed a God
who lays His life down for her.
He did not say,
“I will destroy you until you comply.”
He said,
“Father, forgive them,
they do not know what they are doing.”
A God who tortures His own body
would be less loving
than a human husband.
And Scripture never presents God
as less loving than we are.
⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️
When the church teaches people
to worship an abusive image of God,
it doesn’t just distort theology.
It damages the nervous system.
It fractures the psyche.
It normalizes domination.
It trains people to tolerate harm.
People begin to believe:
- abuse is love
- fear is obedience
- silence is holiness
This is not the gospel.
It is trauma
wearing religious language.
✨ THE TRUE MEASURE ✨
Love does not torture.
Love restores.
Justice does not destroy.
Justice heals.
And a husband who hates his own body
is not a reflection of God —
he is a warning.
Spirits Whisper 🕊️
Love never needs cruelty to prove itself.
What terror demands, love freely gives.
God does not punish His bride —
He heals her memory of who she is.
Anything less is not holiness, but harm.
Charlie Kirk
Published December 24, 2025 by tindertenderJD Vance ~ Assassin?
Did Erica Kirk just have a major Freudian slip?
During a recent speech, Erica Kirk made an unusual wording choice while speaking about her husband.
Just prior to the remark, her iPad shut off due to a dead battery, leaving her without prepared remarks. She then continued speaking from memory rather than reading from a script.
Shortly after, she said:
“Once my husband was assassinated…”
In standard English usage, “once” is typically used to indicate sequence or anticipation… something expected to occur before the next event happens.
Examples of common anticipation-based usage:
- “Once you finish dinner, you can have dessert.”
- “Once the meeting ends, we’ll talk.”
- “Once the paperwork is approved, the process moves forward.”
- “Once he arrives, we’ll begin.”
By contrast, unexpected or traumatic events are normally described using “when” or “after.”
Examples:
- “When my house burned down…”
- “After my loved one passed away…”
- “When the accident happened…”
Thoughts?
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Letting Go of the Ache for Understanding
Published December 23, 2025 by tindertenderThere comes a moment in life when you realize that some hearts will never truly hear you—no matter how clearly you speak, no matter how vulnerably you open your soul. It’s a tender, bruising truth: people can stand right in front of you and still miss the essence of what you’re trying to share. Their ears catch the words, but their fears, wounds, or defenses twist them into something unrecognizable. And in that distortion, you feel the sting of being unseen.
For so long, I carried that sting like a heavy stone in my chest. I’d replay conversations, searching for the perfect phrase I might have missed—the one that could finally bridge the gap. I’d explain myself again and again, softer this time, louder the next, hoping that persistence would crack open their understanding. But each attempt only left me more exhausted, more diminished, as if my truth had to be shrunk or reshaped to fit into their narrow view.
Then, slowly, the deeper pain revealed itself: not just the misunderstanding, but the quiet desperation beneath it—the longing to be fully known, to have my experiences validated by the very people who couldn’t (or wouldn’t) see them. Why did I keep pouring my light into vessels that were already sealed shut? Why did I let their limitations dim my own?
The turning point was a gentle surrender. I stopped trying to force the connection. I stopped believing that my worth depended on their comprehension. It hurt at first—this release—like pulling away from a warmth that was never truly there. Tears came, not from anger, but from grieving the illusion that I could make someone understand if I just tried harder.
In letting go, something profound unfolded. I began to feel the weight lift. My energy, once scattered in endless justifications, returned to me. I stood taller in my own knowing, no longer pleading for permission to exist as I am. There is a fierce, quiet strength in this: honoring your truth without demanding that others mirror it back.
You don’t owe anyone your exhaustion. You don’t need to teach emotional depth to those who aren’t ready to learn it. Your story, your feelings, your perspective—they are valid in their fullness, even if they echo unanswered in someone else’s silence.
True understanding can’t be wrested or begged for; it arrives on its own, softly, when hearts are open. And those who are meant to see you will. They will meet you in the depth without you having to pull them there.
So breathe out the need to be heard by everyone. Release the ache of proving yourself. Hold your truth close, like a sacred flame, and let it illuminate your path instead of burning you out trying to light someone else’s darkness.
In this letting go, you reclaim your peace. You rediscover the beauty of being whole unto yourself. And you walk forward lighter, deeper, freer—knowing that your light shines not for approval, but because it is yours to carry.
🔥 WE ARE WARRIOR GODDESSES 🔥
Published December 23, 2025 by tindertenderWe weren’t born to hide. We are born of fire, earth and ancestral memory.
Inside every woman lives a warrior goddess:
-she who falls and gets up,
-she who dances on the embers without fear,
-she who turns pain into power and wound into wisdom.
We are holy fire.
We are ritual in motion.
We are ancient force awakening in this time.
✨ Remember who you are today.
✨ Honor your body, your history, and your lineage.
✨ Walk with your head held high: your energy is invincible.
🔥 We are goddesses. We are warriors. We are light incarnate. 🔥
The God Eaters
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertender
The Root of ALL evil, the root of the matrix, is the Khazarian Mafia, who belong to the Cult of Ba’al.
These are the trader-killer tribes of Russian and Turkish ancestry that makes up the bloodlines 98% of modern day STATE of isn’t-real, every elite family and out penal system matrix. They created the revolutionary war, the genocide of Native Americans, the drug wars and ghetto, and so on basically everything in this world that that’s broken is because of what they call themselves, “The Family”
These Satan sun-god worshipping eaters of children, blood drinkers and sorcerers of Byzantine black money magic that they print on the fake money (Federal reserve notes), need to be known by everyone. This is where Lucifer gets his strength.
Even though its pure speculation, the alleged niece of Epstein, flat out said, we presented as Jews, but behind closed doors I was taught to worship Ba’al/Moloch… (bohemian grove).
When you watch this documentary, the title posted in this reel can be found on YouTube in two parts, you will understand EXACLY why “isn’t-real” want to kill all the citizens of Palestine. It’s the final piece to this ancient puzzle.
Unveiling What’s Hidden
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertenderThe Courage to try Again
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertenderSome people say your success was just an accident, luck.
They will never admit it was because you tried, tried, tried again. You never gave up, and success was finally achieved.
That’s the way it always happens in the “natural world”.
The others, who get “instant” results, are just manipulators, often thieves and abusers, not successful creators of solutions through genuine, persistent effort on one’s own supply.
Of course the manipulator will whine about your achievements and successes. They’ll insist it’s a hoax.
It’s fake news …
And all that jazz …
A Rabbi’s Daughter Speaks
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertenderInside the Hasidic Jewish Community in New Jersey, a rabbi’s daughter explains the following:
“There is a song we sing on the sabbath… and there is a line in it (speaks in Hewbrew) which means ‘We glorify lies and we uglify beauty’…”
“We have our own police, banking, lawyers, fixers, a whole underworld”.
Ex-Bishop: How Church Protects Child Abusers
Published December 21, 2025 by tindertenderThis is why churches, temples, synagogues and any place of worship needs clear, comprehensive and effective abuse prevention policies-both for how it handles disclosures of abuse by its members or discovery of abuse by its leaders.
Much like schools, these organizations need to have accountability measures and its members must be the ones who demand transparency of those policies.
Otherwise abuse continues to be done in secrecy, abusers are protected and institutions are shielded from consequences for violating their duty of care.
Children deserve us having these difficult conversations so they can be protected.
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